You know, there are so many ways to have relationships. Some look conventional and some look very different! My own situation as a plural and polyamorous bisexual trans man is definitely not conventional. I have one long distance husband, one constellation-mate fiancé(he's in the same system as me, we're both plural), and then various other types of connections, depending. Your relationships don't have to fit a "traditional" mold if that's not what resonates for you. The important thing is that it works for you and whoever you're with.