I had a look at fansly's wishlist service, wish.ly, and it looked like a decent alternative to throne at a glance.

And then I looked at the portal for setting up payouts. It uses stripe.

Stripe, the notoriously anti-sex work payment processor. Being used by a gifts website to give gifts mainly to sex workers.

You may as well attach a big banner that says 'SIGN UP HERE IF YOU WANT TO HAVE THE RUG PULLED FROM UNDER YOU'

The precariousness of it would be right up there with taking SW-related tips on ko-fi

Ko-fi will suspend your account if you are found to be linking it from anywhere that you post boobs or ass. It doesn't need to be there for tips /for/ the boobs and ass, those existing in the same place will be enough. And this is entirely because of Stripe's policies around it.
Other tip platforms are the same, and for the same reason.

So to be using Stripe to take payouts for things directly related to adult content creation is fucking wild

@babe fuck I suspected stripe of being bigoted cunts for years because they never took down a SINGLE account that was using them for hate reasons